Open Question: Have you ever kept a girl you were attracted to as a friend?

6 February 2012, 3:33 pm

I've known this cute girl for 10 months with this charismatic personality and perfect body. We kissed a year ago and she acted like my girl when we worked together. We spent 6 months stuck together flirting(hands on her big butt) lol it was romantic but coworkers started to gossip and she hated it so after 6 months she told them she had a boyfriend which caused problems for me because she never told me that. Literally everyone gave me the silent treatment it was awful and led to me making a mistake and getting fired. She had feelings (crying,called me everyday for the first 2 months) but told me she still missed her ex of 5 years and isn't over him. I don't work with her no more so things are weird when we talk on phone. Before xmas we spoke about 3 times a week but I gave her space. So my problem is, I want to see her(not seen her since November) but when I suggest she seems to put it off. I don't suggest date,location time because she never says "I'm free" or anything. Just that she will let me know or gives some excuse. In person our eyes would lock on when we sat next to eachother she would blush and eyes squint so she was really into me. It saddens me we can't work together no more. She mentioned meeting up with me this week but she wasn't serious, as when I told her I was off on Friday she txt me asking when our next shift at this other part time job we do as if to say she couldn't see me. I tried calling her and she ignored my calls that day. It's like she doesn't want to see me at all or is afraid something might happen.... Read More »

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